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erection big draw iron shirt masturbationFrom: Swedich Dragon
Subject: Practice
Date/Time 2010-07-05 23:19:59
Remote IP: 84.217.125.195
MessageHello!
No I suppose I was wery unclear.
What I think has helped the erectional dysfunction is: No porn. Wery litle ejaculations or full retention. Using big draw. Using testicle massage and breathing.
Irong shirt: When I build Jing with retention I got another problem from time to time. That is when I feel I have plenty of sexual energy and I got many morning woods, erections, during the night. It then happens from time to time that the big draw isn¨t enough to stop the erection. That is even though I take up alot of energy to the head, the erection is still there. What I have to do is to stand in an iron shirt possition, nearly allways I then chooses the standing three poose. Then I does the big draw standing and that will solve that problem, the erection vanish by the big draw and it is possible to go to sleep without being horny as hell :)
I think this has something to do with masturbation. I know Mantak Chia´s advise is to not do much masturbation in combination with your retention practise. I think he writes someting about that it easily become a habbit. Well with so much extra sexual energy it realy is easy to make a habbit of it. You just have to learn to do the big draw emediately, when you have morning erections, and learn to enjoy the calm sexual energy, and not excite it to much. To clearify what I have noticed is that if you do much masturbation with your morning erections, then they come back many times during the night. I think the masturbations produces even more sexual energy and the big draw can´t handle it all, some get stuck in the sexual organ. And beacase I not live with a woman I think what is missed is the yin energy. Doing iron shirt adds that yin energy that also calms the sexual energy. At least this is my interpretention of the situation.
The iron shirt helps. It stops the erection. When having such erections that not ends with big draw it is easy to continue masturbating and then doing several big draws in a row. I know also that some of my trials to reach 100 days of retention has been stopped just within such situations. Suddenly I come during those period with wery exited Jing. The iron shirt is wery efective to end the cycle.
I have had in my mind to try retention without masturbation. But never have done it actually. But I have done less masturbation than before, while doing retention. When doing retention and creating alot of Jing it is easy to overindulge in sex of any kind. My intuitions tells me that this is realy one reason for why the retention might go wrong. You have to be able to create lot of Jing and still calmness even in your sexuality. Letting it be wery potent, but not overindulge into the nice feelings of it. Of course you can enjoy it from time to time, but not to much.
Perhasp I mysrlf is learning more and more to see the difference. One of the dangers from what I have read is that you create alot of Jing, but if you overindulge in sex you actually are loosing Jing in the long run, even though you think you are building. Scary things. Moderation is the key, but not allways easy to find.
It would be interesting to know how others on the forum doing retention, is dealing with overindulgence in terms of masturbation or intercourse or other sexual activities as well.
Hopes that did clariafy the issue. and perhaps also adds new questions :)
SD
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