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Tantric massage with a gay friend: counterpole wiringFrom: wendy
Subject: Philosophy
Date/Time 2009-05-02 04:53:14
Remote IP: 84.197.161.231
MessageAbout two years ago a gay friend needed a 'woman' to practice a private tantra massage course with. He asked if I was interested, not knowing anyone other who wanted to do this and since I like to push the boundaries gently I agreed to join him. To my own surprise I could not enjoy it, it was even unpleasurable. I felt that his gay poled energy was not stimulating my female energy, it was just flat. When he put his body as a counterpole on mine to make an energy circuit, it felt cold and unpleasurable. We both agreed later, after that session, that this private tantric massage was a NO for both of us, interesting to try but not satisfying energetically and even a bit repulsive.
The teacher was surprised that we did not came back for more classes.
This little anecdote just made me think that maybe that is why 'normal' poled people react unconsciously on 'counterpoled' others. The energetic dynamic is not matching. Since religions have a 'problem' with sex in general, this underlying counterpoling might effect their 'problem' even deepeer, it feels to them as 'abnormal'. As it was a bit repulsive to me, it was my own free choice being in a complete naked surrendering and very explicite touching situation, I could not help this feeling to arise in my 'normal' wired body. Despite my absolute openness to my gay friends, the sexual poling is just different and for narrow poled (narrow minded :) people just too difficult to understand in their own body/energy, creating repulsive feelings in their bodies, my guess.
We are still good friends but I don't think I will ever agree on another tantric massage with him, yet any other massage with him is fine.
So Steven, trying to understand others to understand yourself is absolutely true and valid, it would make this world a wonderful diverse place respecting each others uniqueness/otherness :)
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