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Punishment!!?? Wisdom you mean...From: wendy
Subject: General
Date/Time 2009-03-29 12:32:37
Remote IP: 94.224.194.170
Message777,
There are always two parties, not just one to blame. If two people are in a fullfilling relationship there is no reason at all to cheat, how can you when you are full with love of the other.
Yet reality shows, and I was in that case, that we carry pain and blindness in us. If all was simple clear of how to deal with our past and pains we could figure out solutions right away and deal with it on the spot but it seems most of us can not. It seems that we need a sort of struggle to face our deepest patterns, sometimes over and over till we die or are lucky enough to discover them and change them causing pain along the way.
Adultery is nothing more or less one of the many paths of pain and challenge.
And who will judge who is the bad one and the good one? Who has so much wisdom to see those two people's soul patterns?
Why do they need this conflict? Why couldn't they not see a way out, other than adultery for her and him feeling abandoned and hurt?
Well 777 I guess those judges are rare, so people need to invent general rules and morals because 'those who can see' are hard to find.
So we are ruled by general ideas, morals and rules created out of lack of true wisdom, to guide the mass and to make society workable.
Yet as a Taoist you have to look beyond the morals and rules and look for the true meaning of why this happened to these two people without judging one or the other, because they found each other for a reason and created pain for some reason.
It is nice if you could help to discover the deeper reasons for their pains, for both.
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