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Relationship issues!From: Steven
Subject: General
Date/Time 2007-12-27 00:29:50
Remote IP: 68.255.63.244
MessageHi SD,
Being single, I'm probably not the best to respond, but
I'll take a stab.
Cultivate within, to develop internal happiness and
contentment. You want to be happy within first, or
you'll look to the other one to supply you with what you
don't have--and then create conflict when they don't
give it to you. Similarly, operate from a standpoint
of heightened awareness to see that they are happy
without a relationship, so that they likewise don't
look to you to fill their hole.
If you can do these things, then the only other
thing I would say is this:
Keep things light and fun
Then the rest will take care of itself.
Too much worry and analyzing can poison an otherwise
good relationship. Replace with compassion and
loving kindness.
In short:
cultivation, awareness, light and fun, no worries,
compassion, and loving kindness
are useful tools for such a journey.
Best wishes,
Steven
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