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Plus...From: Nnonnth
Subject: General
Date/Time 2007-07-20 09:12:41
Remote IP: 195.93.21.72
Message... the reason I was thinking about it for asthmatic there is really because it will settle once and for all why sex is losing him energy. All over the CDs for multiples is stuff about what they call 'emotional furballs', that is, things which prevent emotional connection to sexuality and intimacy in men, being brought up by the practice. Time and again, it seems, - was the same with me too - it turns out a man can't be having multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms unless he is emotionally comfortable with himself, with sex and intimacy. Often you feel definite 'stuff' standing in the way of joy and pleasure in your body, definite issues popping up. To me it's these issues that reduce your energy in sex, it's not a sperm mechanism.
So if asthmatic goes this route he will find if he has these issues which I am guessing is far more likely than a mechanical problem with ejaculation as I say. You and I both know that people are often using celibacy in spirituality as a negative thing, as a way of not dealing with life, people who have 'incarnation issues' etc. who don't like the idea of being in a body and who want to use the spiritual to disengage from life - exactly the kind of people Michael talks about from the TM movement in the latest chiflowsnaturally for example. To me that kind of thing is 180deg different from the positive and disciplined use of witholding oneself from sexual activity to explore what happens or to build energy - I believe Michael did go celibate for a while and since he still does sexual practice one can draw one's own conclusions.
The fact for me is that Mantak's (and Michael's! :)) old book, which I did read BTW, didn't explore these emotional things at all for men. What is being done now on the audio course I don't know yet, but the multiples methodology did automatically bring up lingering feelings in me that I needed to resolve and it was as valuable in that way for me as it was in giving me piles of orgasms! The two go together in other words. Either you are able to make a deep connection with yourself and another person, or else there will always be something missing in sex for you.
That's what Alexander was trying to say as well I believe, so I hope asthmatic ponders it well! The stereotypical celibate spiritual seeker is a damaging oversimplification, to me it seems that centuries of people not addressing sex as part of their practice has damaged human karma quite unpleasantly. I know it doesn't happen here because sex is still emphasized but I have met people, magicians even, who just thought they were above it all, and thus above the common ruck. This is to cut oneself off emotionally.
I'll stop now!!!! :)
J
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