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I would addFrom: Nnonnth
Subject: General
Date/Time 2007-07-08 08:45:32
Remote IP: 195.93.21.72
MessageThat you might consider it necessary to your own evolution as well - the pain of someone cheating on you I mean.
The way I look at these things from the theoretical point of view is that ideally we would all be having sex with everything all of the time. So affairs are not surprising. But I think there are better ways of conducting them as this woman is saying... the illicitness of affairs tends to promote the idea that the best sex is illicit, and indeed the guys who are saying 'oh god what am I doing?' just as they are fucking their chosen temporary squeeze are probably actually getting off on the self-condemnation. Alot of people like to do that, it's one of the easier taboos to break, and the thrill comes from not having been 'allowed to'.
The best way of handling it would be for all people to be friends, and the 'affairee' to accept they are just passing through, talk about it upfront. If you can do that of course its mystique goes away.
NN
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