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No Fair! On cyber-sex clubs...tips for Pick Up Artists, Soul SexFrom: Michael Winn
Subject: General
Date/Time 2007-02-08 13:05:21
Remote IP: 66.32.64.110
MessageAh, the silver tongued magician himself has been magically attracted back to the forum.
Welcome back.
A form of cyber-sex must be happening, since all energetic exchange has a sexual component....
Of course, it is always delightful to read someone who even mostly agrees with you. But I think you went further, sharp perceptions on the spiritual reality of who controls DNA/language vs. the culturally controlled types who haven't yet awakened to that responsibility.
And especially important, your point about soul directs and creates the body and infuses it. This is consonant with Taoist idea of growing your soul presence (immortal embryo, inner sage, etc.) within a maturing body-mind.
Opposite of Christian notions of frail human minds trying to save our soul thru faith or Buddhists notions of slaying the mind in order for the soul to escape this sex-addicted prison planet grinding wheel of life. The soul is always in charge here, we are simply unconscious of it. And I accept that the soul is a free-willed expression of a higher collective. The notion of “it’s Bad Karma to be born human” is ultimately just a self-judgment better dissolved.
I do note that Plato, having taken at least a temporary vow of celibacy, is following the method that I found worked best for me. When something controls you, you have to stop doing it for long enough to see that your compulsive habit is a choice.
I went celibate for one year to prove I wasn't run by my hormones/balls/DNA. Then had sex with a lovely Norwegian lady (I love that country, anything close to the Noth Pole). That was when I realized that even though the sex was lovely, I by myself was more profound than the sex, and didn't need it.
Then I went celibate for two years, while experimenting with different internal sexual practices. Hint to PU artists: if you want to drive a woman crazy, just announce you are celibate, ie. not interested in women. A significant percentage will do their best to prove you are wrong.....by attempting to seduce you.
Anyway, at the end of two years of celibacy, I realized I could now have a sexual relationship that was more or less conscious. But celibacy gets you hyper-sensitive to possible soul-attracted partners. I found one at a Taoist retreat, actually a couple of them (that 's a story for another time).
So to take the dialogue one step further: once you are having sex, you are sharing core channel space with another soul and there is the possibility of recognizing that both souls are arising from the same source/field, there is still the question:
DOES THIS MULTUAL SELF-RECOGNITION and ACCEPTANCE CREATE A RESPONSIBILITY?
It is undoubtedly a moment usually labelled "love". But then the confusion arises: what happens next?
How does a moment of pure soul truth relate to the morass of culturally confused relationships, economic and politcally designed marriage customs, etc. ?
Too a big a question for me to answer at this moment. But it is why I believe a sexual cultivation practice is useful or even essentiala to someone who wants to go beyond celibacy and engage in sex with others or between the male-female polarities of the soul.
Loving my soul-infused body,
michael
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